what is a blog for?

so in my last blog, i used it as a way to talk out situations in my life that i was confused, frustrated, or otherwise undecided about.  the problem with this is that i can't very well discuss certain things without revealing details that would further complicate the situation.  

for example (and this is just an example):  i am dating "katie."  i'm not sure if she's really right for me and i am debating whether or not to break up with her.  well i can't exactly write in my blog about it without her being able to come read it, then know i am thinking about breaking up with her.   oops.  there's always the situation where i've already told her everything that i would post in the blog, but then i don't exactly need to talk it out, now do i?  i've already done that.  besides, if i've told her my concerns, she's probably responded to them.  then i would be more likely to come discuss her responses and factor them into the situation.  i did things like that in my last blog.  it wasn't pretty.  people don't always want the things they tell you to then be revealed to everyone.

so that said, i have to decide what i want this blog to be.  is it going to be a place to debate situations in order to come to a conclusion, or will it have to be more of a place to come analyze situations already passed.  the later sounds less exciting, however might be the more feasible option.

of course this only applies to situations concerning other people in my life.  unfortunately that's where so much of my inner conflict resides.  guess we'll see what happens eh?

in other news, i have started to eat spinach on things.  those of you who know me well will understand how epic this is.